MARCH, Women’s Month, Women’s Issues & Women as Collateral Damages

March is recognised internationally as Women’s Month. This year, I was part of
Dear Father: what is the cost of your love?

“My father called me” Khadijat blurted out as I picked her call “Which father? I was confused “Alhaji”
the single parent and the other gender child

Holding my son’s crotch in my hands, I gingerly tilted it allways as I
The Undignifying Circle of Life

21:53 My eyes are tired. They have been attempting to
“I would love to cheat on my wife too”

“You think I do not cheat because I love my wife so much?” his laughter cooled off as he switched on his serious face “Well, why else? or is it your moralist views?” I teased. Since I knew he was not big on religion There we stood by the frontage of my compound while he […]
error of commission

“My home is hot right now as my wife has served me an ultimatum”. he cradled his coffee cup and leaned back into his seat We all turned towards him. “Why is that?” Alan one of the coordinators, an elderly man with kind eyes asked. “She insists my friend has to leave” Ovie replied with […]
Immigrant Parenthood: a man’s world

“You saw how clueless I was when my baby began crying. The women here had to step in and take over. If I was back in Nigeria I would never take a baby out of the house on my own. said a frazzled ‘deji as he started contributing to the discussion” The Nigerian in me […]
Navigating Anger and Faith: A Candid Conversation on Suffering and God’s Goodness – 2

…..missed Part 1? here getting stronger” his plaintive tone cut into me At some point in the conversation; Ruth stood up to get more coffees and after much insistence from both of them, I agreed to a Cappuccino. Although it had begun to rain on a day with a sunny forecast, my stomach roiled at […]
Embracing Vulnerability: Reimagining the Relationship with God in Trials – 2

Did you miss Part 1? Here. ……that God left us examples of people who cried out as they struggled; ElijahJonahJeremiah “All these men despaired enough to voice their grievances. Yet God stooped down to engage and assuage each one” “Why did he not get angry enough to shush them up and make them be […]
Embracing Vulnerability: Reimagining the Relationship with God in Trials

Public Relations = the stealth art of making something/someone appear presentably acceptable to the eyes of others. [amara nnaji 2024] It was the evening of the first day of #newwineunited24. A Christian camping festival in England held weekly every summer. 2024 has attracted 14k worshippers of all ages across the Globe. My church family arrived […]